AI Experience Design (AIX)

Designing the relationship between humans and intelligent AI systems not just the tools, buttons, or screens they use

AI Experience Design (AIX)

Designing the relationships between humans and intelligent AI systems not just the tools, buttons, or screens they use

From internal tools to customer-facing experiences, AI is now making decisions, offering suggestions, and shaping outcomes across your business. But while the technology is advancing rapidly, the human experience of AI hasn’t kept pace.

That’s where AIX (AI Experience Design) comes in.

AIX is the practice of designing the relationship between humans and intelligent systems—not just the screens or features they use.

We’ve entered the era of AI business transformation, and no business can fully evolve without addressing how people will relate to the intelligence they’re building into their systems.

WHY AIX MATTERS

AI IS MOVING FASTER THAN
DESIGN CULTURE CAN ADAPT

Engineering teams are shipping AI features rapidly, driven by breakthroughs in LLMs, generative tools, and automation—but experience design hasn’t been part of that loop.

We’re building intelligence into systems before we’ve defined how it should behave, communicate, or earn trust.


THE FOCUS HAS BEEN ON CAPABILITY,
NOT RELATIONSHIP

Much of AI implementation has been centered around what the system can do—generate a paragraph, predict a number, automate a task.

But little thought has been given to how that system makes people feel, or how users come to understand, question, or trust it.


AI OFTEN VIOLATES FAMILIAR
UX EXPECTATIONS

Traditional systems are rule-based, predictable, and visible. AI systems, by contrast, are:

  • Subject to chance variation

  • Opaque

  • Adaptive (and sometimes inconsistent)

This creates cognitive dissonance: users expect consistency, but get unpredictability.

Without AIX, we don’t resolve that gap—we widen it.


HUMAN NEEDS ARE COMPLEX—AND UNDERESTIMATED

People need more than functionality from AI—they need clarity, respect, boundaries, and emotional safety.

These aren’t “nice-to-haves.” They are core to adoption, trust, and retention. And yet… they’ve been treated as afterthoughts.

CAN WE REALLY BUILD A RELATIONSHIPS WITH AI TECH??

If AI is just technology, why talk about relationships? Seems silly, right? How can you have a “relationship” with technology? 

First off, we all have relationships with our tech. How far from you right now is your phone? 

But AI doesn’t behave like traditional tools—it listens, responds, adapts, and makes decisions on our behalf. That’s no longer a one-way interaction; it’s a dynamic exchange. Whether we intend to or not, people naturally form relationships with systems that act with agency—we trust them, resent them, argue with them, or avoid them based on how they behave. So no, we’re not building relationships with the code—we’re designing the experience of relating to an intelligent presence. And that experience determines whether users feel confident, respected, and safe—or confused, alienated, and out of control.

“Our company is rapidly moving to implement AI solutions, but I’m concerned our users and my colleagues aren’t be considered in how these tools are being built and rolled out.”

– Chief Technology Officer, Mid-size tech firm

AIX CORE PRINCIPLES

DESIGN FOR INTENT, NOT JUST INTERACTION

Focus on what the user is really trying to accomplish—not just what they click or type. AIX helps systems align with human goals, even when those goals are messy, evolving, or implicit.

BUILD TRUST THROUGH PREDICTABILITY AND EMOTIONAL INTEGRITY

Trust is earned when AI behaves consistently and responds with emotional intelligence. Systems should feel reliable, respectful, and safe to engage with.

LET SYSTEM SHOULD MORPH AROUND THE HUMAN

AI experiences should adapt to real people in real moments—shifting tone, pace, and complexity to meet users where they are, not where a persona says they should be.

CRAFT EXPERIENCES THAT AUGMENT, NOT AUTOMATE

Ideas tailored to engage your customers and create measurable value.

TREAT ETHICS AS A DESIGN CONSTRAINT

Ethical gaps aren’t edge cases—they’re design decisions left unmade. AIX treats ethics as a core part of the experience, ensuring AI systems are built to be fair, respectful, and safe before they ship.

MAKE GOOD FRICTION

Not all friction is bad—especially when it supports learning, reflection, or skill development. AIX designs intentional pauses that don’t just speed up tasks, but strengthen understanding. Like an AI that helps a student learn the concept—not just hand over the answer.

FAQs
Why do we need AIX if we already have UX and product design?

UX focuses on usability: how the interface or screens or buttons work. AIX focuses on relational behavior—how the system behaves, how people feel about it, and how trust is built over time.

 
Where does AIX fit in my AI business transformation?

Just like UX was critical to digital transformation, AIX is essential to AI transformation.

AIX connects across your roadmap:

  • AI & automation strategy → AIX makes it usable

  • Data & models → AIX makes them understandable

  • Ethics & governance → AIX makes them trustworthy

  • Customer experience → AIX makes it feel human

 
Is AIX just another name for Responsible AI or Ethical AI?

No—AIX complements those efforts. Responsible AI focuses on what AI should do; AIX focuses on how people experience what it does.

 
Who is AIX for?

Product managers, designers, researchers, AI engineers, and business leaders—anyone shaping how intelligent systems show up in people’s lives.

Can small teams or startups use AIX, or is it just for big companies?

Absolutely. Everyone and anyone working on building AIX tools and experiences, regardless of company size should be embracing the AIX principles. AIX scales—whether you’re building a scrappy MVP or an enterprise-grade system.

 

What kinds of intelligent AI systems benefit from AIX?

Any AI that makes decisions, adapts, communicates, or influences—chatbots, recommendations, predictive tools, agents, copilots, and beyond. So basically… anything that brings intelligent AI systems together with humans.

 

What does it mean to “design a relationship” with AI?

It means shaping how users perceive, trust, and collaborate with AI over time—not just what the system outputs, but how it behaves.

 

How is AIX different from UX for chatbots or voice interfaces?

AIX goes beyond the interface to address tone, behavior, explainability, and emotional impact—especially when AI feels to the user like it’s “thinking” or “deciding.”

 

What happens if we ignore AIX?

You risk poor adoption, mistrust, emotional backlash, bad data, legal exposure, and a fractured product experience.

 

Is AIX just about customer-facing experiences?

No—AIX applies just as much to internal tools. If your employees don’t trust or understand the AI, they won’t use it well (or at all). This isn’t about silos, it’s about the collaboration of intelligent AI systems and humans.

 
What makes AIX different from everything else out there?

Most frameworks focus on what AI does. AIX focuses on how it feels to use—because that’s where trust, adoption, and impact really live.

SERVICE OFFERINGS

AIX STRATEGY & DISCOVERY

Set the foundation for AIX across your organization

This offering helps you understand what AIX is, where your current AI experiences fall short, and how to begin designing intelligent systems that build trust and adoption.

Includes:

  • AIX Discovery Sprint (1 day workshop)

  • Current-state AI experience audit

  • Stakeholder interviews or alignment sessions

  • High-level experience gap map

  • Prioritized AIX opportunity roadmap

Ideal for: product leaders, heads of design, or digital transformation teams just beginning to integrate AI

AIX DESIGN & IMPLEMENTATION SUPPORT

Bring AIX principles to life inside your product and team workflows

We work directly with your cross-functional team to build better human-AI interactions, tone strategies, friction points, and feedback loops—aligned to your brand, goals, and systems.

Includes:

  • Trust & tone design strategy

  • Emotional journey mapping

  • Good friction and system behavior design

  • AIX integration planning and team playbook

  • Cross-functional collaboration sessions

Ideal for: teams actively building or shipping AI-powered features and tools

EXECUTIVE ADVISING & TRANSFORMATION COACHING

Keep the human layer front and center in your AI roadmap

Ongoing advisory and strategic support for senior leaders navigating AI transformation—with a focus on experience quality, ethical alignment, and long-term value.

Includes:

  • 1:1 executive advising sessions

  • AI transformation strategy reviews

  • Team coaching and workshop facilitation

  • Ethical and relational risk reviews

  • Thought partnership and executive communications

Ideal for: C-suite, heads of product, heads of experience/AI, or transformation leader

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Hi! I’m Jake McKee, the original Community Guy. Going all the way back to 1996, I’ve played an instrumental role in building online communities and Community Driven Product Development programs for some of the world’s most successful and recognizable brands, including LEGO, Apple, Southwest Airlines, Canon, and H&R Block.

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